I am very happy now.
Recalling the most difficult time for me as a mother when Benjamin was not working in Hong Kong and my own business workload was tremendous heavy with lots of traveling during 2000 to 2002. At that time, Terence and Michelle was 11 and 8 years old respectively.
My personal life motto is, “Let me enrich my life by creating memories”. I am happy that recently (2008) Terence told me that he has nice memories for his childhood and now he wants to create memories by shooting memorable moments on to photo with his soon departing classmates.
As a mother, I and my children mostly remember a couple of people in my children’s lives:
1. Phillip (P&G) spent time with Terence and Michelle by taking them to his office. Michelle remembers very well and we talked about this when we met with Phillip, Winner and his 3 years old son in 2008 CNY Sunday.
Recalling the most difficult time for me as a mother when Benjamin was not working in Hong Kong and my own business workload was tremendous heavy with lots of traveling during 2000 to 2002. At that time, Terence and Michelle was 11 and 8 years old respectively.
My personal life motto is, “Let me enrich my life by creating memories”. I am happy that recently (2008) Terence told me that he has nice memories for his childhood and now he wants to create memories by shooting memorable moments on to photo with his soon departing classmates.
As a mother, I and my children mostly remember a couple of people in my children’s lives:
1. Phillip (P&G) spent time with Terence and Michelle by taking them to his office. Michelle remembers very well and we talked about this when we met with Phillip, Winner and his 3 years old son in 2008 CNY Sunday.
2. Jonathan practiced running with Terence when Terence prepared for his Year 7 school 5km running competition at Wan Chai. When we talked about this in year end of 2007, Jonathan said thanks Turner’s suggestion at that time. In fact it was a challenge to him. Yet, Terence remembers well about their running together.
3. Lai played funny posture with Terence.
4. Mike played the animal game with the children and parents in the family devo at my home at Bremar Hill.
5. Last but not least, Yumika came to my home before 7am to prepare lunch box for Michelle when I was away for business trip and Wati was on holiday home.
In last Home Sunday in Feb 2008 by watch Steve’s DVD on “weakness” and “hardened heart”, Doris has a very good conviction that, “The one who is willing to show her weakness and accept other’s help, in turn is giving blessing to the one who offers help.”
I am glad that I was in weakness than closing up myself in 2000 to 2002. Now I could have my children grown up healthily.
Once my husband complimented me as his good wife. His theory was that husband is the partner in guard of his wife (giving advice before she is out of track and she has to listen). A good mother has to be patient enough to bring her children to understanding and discerning. Partly of a successful wife is to being a successful mother.
Once again, I am very happy now. I had difficult time and been got help from brothers and sisters around me. As my children have grown up, I have more time to contribute now. I want to love children of other brothers and sisters as they have done on me. This is the way of “fan the flame” in the bible.
Are we willing to take up the spiritual torch and pass on the spirit as what Olympic is doing before the opening. Everything begins with a grateful heart, including our motives in doing anything and lives on day by day. If we do not feel like that, we should ask ourselves WHY.
Moreover, young adults do not like being taught because they are ideal dreamers. They like to see something real – which is modeling. Their rebellious comes from seeing the injustice and unrighteous of the adult or the world. Shall we focus on their mistakes and misbehavior or ours first? Furthermore, why don’t we give them a chance of involvement? Learning by experimenting is a good way of learning. When they take care the younger ones, they begin to understand how their parents are taking care of them.
In last Home Sunday in Feb 2008 by watch Steve’s DVD on “weakness” and “hardened heart”, Doris has a very good conviction that, “The one who is willing to show her weakness and accept other’s help, in turn is giving blessing to the one who offers help.”
I am glad that I was in weakness than closing up myself in 2000 to 2002. Now I could have my children grown up healthily.
Once my husband complimented me as his good wife. His theory was that husband is the partner in guard of his wife (giving advice before she is out of track and she has to listen). A good mother has to be patient enough to bring her children to understanding and discerning. Partly of a successful wife is to being a successful mother.
Once again, I am very happy now. I had difficult time and been got help from brothers and sisters around me. As my children have grown up, I have more time to contribute now. I want to love children of other brothers and sisters as they have done on me. This is the way of “fan the flame” in the bible.
Are we willing to take up the spiritual torch and pass on the spirit as what Olympic is doing before the opening. Everything begins with a grateful heart, including our motives in doing anything and lives on day by day. If we do not feel like that, we should ask ourselves WHY.
Moreover, young adults do not like being taught because they are ideal dreamers. They like to see something real – which is modeling. Their rebellious comes from seeing the injustice and unrighteous of the adult or the world. Shall we focus on their mistakes and misbehavior or ours first? Furthermore, why don’t we give them a chance of involvement? Learning by experimenting is a good way of learning. When they take care the younger ones, they begin to understand how their parents are taking care of them.
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