Saturday, June 16, 2007

We love first so our children learn to love.

After a long week of rainy days, today is a blessed sunny day. We had plan to go for a war game but due to the time strain, we decided to have a diversity activities fusion at KC's club house.

Since tomorrow is the father's day, let me make a count on the fathers first: KC, Shing, Ivan and Benjamin.

How about the mothers: Margaret, CarLai, Bonnie and Belinda.

Then our children: Joshua, Gabiel, Laier, Peter, David, Shawn, Terence, Michelle, Leo, Yvonne.

Altogether how many of us? 5 families and 18 members................we still miss Ivan's wife, Candy and their younger son. Yes, we also miss Belinda's husband (3).

WHY are we together? We decided to provide an environment to let us and our children to learn how to love each other. (Be humble to love but not using any of our past knowledge. Love requires renewal wisdom.)

WHAT are we going to do? We do not need to decide exactly what we are going to do but let the flow leads us (God has his plan). What we have to remember clearly is our motive of doing so --- TO LOVE. In every gathering and interaction, are we loving each other? (not to do any loving action but to presence with love)

HOW do we make this happen? We (to) open each of ourselves, sharing our life honestly. KC shared his schooling pictures with us. If we are open, we are simple. (love has no fear and we are not fear to share everything.)

I was happy to see these scenes:

  • Terence and Peter were enjoying conversations with KC, Shing and Benjamin (an adult talk).
  • Laier played hard with David.
  • Joshua was paired with Shawn.
  • Michelle talked with Uncle Ivan (like a mature young lady).
  • Terence and Peter were drowning in their jam (music).
  • CarLai has passed her heartbeat test by staying in the band room for over 30 mins.
  • Belinda player badminton with Leo and Yvonne.
  • CarLai taught Michelle to succeed a big strike in bowling.
  • Magaret, CarLai and Bonnie could not stop their talking.
  • Benjamin played Tennis with KC in such a hot morning.
  • Shing has quiet fellowship with Ivan though he worked overnight - no sleepy sign at all.
  • We finished 4 big pizza.

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